1. My boyfriend and I have been dating for approximately 10 months, recently my sex drive has dimenished although I still love him dearly. I’m not sure whether it’s because I feel smothered by him or the fact I’m going through menopause (I’m 45). Can you help?2. Again we’ve been dating for 10 months, but have known each other for 4 1/2 years, how long is acceptable to wait for a proposal?3. How can I ask my boyfriend politely to use mouthwash and chapstick, so he is more kissable?Thanks.