I really appreciate your site and I hope you can help me with my problem.My husband has recently introduced me to vibrators and hot tub jets. I enjoyed these things, but I feel a real sense of guilt when I orgasm in this manner rather than’with’ him. He doesn’t have a problem with it, but I sometimes wonder if it isn’t just a little too kinky.I also wonder about the safety and whether or not these things can cause problems further on down the road either sexually or physically. I would appreciate any response.Thank You