Dear Dr. Love,I am a 29 year old woman who has just recently experienced her first orgasm. . . at least that is what I think it was!? I love my boyfriend very much, and he makes me feel so comfortable in bed. . . just recently, we were engaged in oral intercourse and an explosion came out of me! I thought that I may have pee’d myself, but it happens more explosively each time it happens. Is it normal for a woman to actually cum with such a force? I just want to make sure I am normal!!!!!Excited but confused in Ontario, Canada
Yes, you are normal. When a woman deeply loves her sexual partner and feels secure with him, all the elements are in place for huge orgasms. And, by the way, your sensation that you are peeing yourself when you get off is also normal too. Some researchers have found that up to 40% of women experience ejaculation when they have an intense orgasm. It isn’t known whether the fluid is urine or a special secretion from the vaginal glands. It doesn’t matter what the fluid is and where it comes from. All you need to know is that you are one lucky woman. Keep those orgasms coming!
