I believe that I am with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. He has treated me better than any other man in my life. He helped me get out of a bad relationship (abusive) and then our eyes connected and here we are, together. I know that he would never do anything to ever hurt me, in any way. I truely believe that I love him. We have only been together for 7 mons. but I can see us together far into the future.The problem is that we are both committed only to each other and I feel loved by him, and he insists that he doesn’t feel any from me. I’ll admitt it is hard for me to get close scince I have been trough a lot with guys, but I do’love’ him. I don’t know how to prove my love to him. I’ve thought about carring his child, which I would feel privieged, but I want to know if there is any ideas of how eles to show him my’love.
The best way to know how to show your boyfriend your love is to ask him what words or actions would convey your love to him. I say ask him because every human being is different, and what floats one person’s boat will sink another’s. For example, one man might feel loved by having a special meal made for him, while another might feel more loved if his girl were to dress sexy for him.So, first and foremost, ask your guy what you could say or do that would communicate to him all the love that is trapped in your heart.I would also ask him what you are doing and saying now that makes him feel that you don’t love him. It is very important that you find this out as well, because, if you add loving words and gestures, but continue to shoot yourself in the emotional foot by saying or doing things that make him feel unloved, you will be rowing in a circle.So, ask what you are doing that makes him feel unloved and ask what you can say and do to make him feel that you love him.Once you remove the obstacles and add the right ingredients, he should get the message. Keep in mind that your boyfriend may also have his own issues around feeling unloved and unwanted. After all, he did choose you as a partner. And, you said yourself that you are very undemonstrative. So, keep in mind that he may have chosen you because he is accustomed to not being loved the way he wants. In which case, he may not notice or may find it difficult to receive your love when you offer it. So, if you are both aware of this possibility, you will be able to attack the problem from all angles.Lots of luck. Sounds like you have a winning relationship.
