Dr Love,My husband died 9 yrs ago & I had a wonderful marriage, before he died he told me he wanted me to find someone to take care of me. I’ve been seeing a man for 6 1/2 yrs now, shortly after we started seeing one another I heard someone on a talk show say if there are no plans for the future in 2 yrs, end the relationship; I told him this, and that I didn’t believe in a long relationship of dating.We had talked about marriage, but he seems to be a man that dwells on things a long time; I learned to make the best of everyday as though it may be your last, and don’t let things bother me as much. I love him and want to marry him, but I don’t want to wait forever; I’m to the point of ending our relationship and looking for someone that wants to spend the rest of our life together.I am 56 yrs old, so I have no idea how many yrs I have left; and I don’t want to be alone. He’s 54 yrs old and divorced. Please tell me what you think I should do.Thanks for your help!!