Is it safe for a 14 year-old girl to have sex? If so, they plan on having it safe with a condom? Can there be problems? I just want make sure that it won’t hurt her or like anything bad!She means the world to me and we think we are ready but I am not sure if that ‘s the safest thing to do at this age. I am 16 by the way. I love her and I want to make sure I don’t hurt her!Please help me I don’t know much about this subject!! Thank you!
Since you are so worried, I think that you should listen to your feelings and talk about them with her.Ask her if she’s truly ready. Ask her if she’s afraid of pain. By talking with her we’ll be able to find out if the fear you are experiencing is hers or yours.If she admits to feeling what you’re feeling, then hold and talk with her more. Wait until she feels more comfortable.If she’s comfortable now, and you’re the only one who’s afraid, then your own fears will likely diminish when you talk to her and find out that she’s ready and willing.When the time is right, make sure to take your time, give her lots of foreplay, and don’t enter her until she’s very lubricated and ready for you. This is the way to insure that you don’t hurt her.