I am totally confused and feeling totally crazy. I am a divorced mother of two (3,7).I met a man and after a year we have moved in together. He has a weekend daughter (7) and we all get along great. After 6 months of living together he has told me he loves me but he has to figure out if I am the one. He says he needs to know before we go any further whether this is it?He is 28 and I am 33. He said we should stop sleeping together at the moment so it wont cloud his thinking because our sex life is too good. He wants to know if it’s just sex or the real thing.