Please note this question was accidentally erased. Dr. Jamie reposted it under her name.

Hi! I have been with my husband for seven years (3 married) He shows zero interest in being intimate and it drives me crazy because I’m all about it. He’s been to get testosterone treatment but never follows through with it and thinks that going months without sex is “normal” and “acceptable”. It makes me feel like there is something wrong with me that he doesn’t want it. Im literally in a downward spiral of depression. I can’t be happy like this, he refuses to go to therapy also. Is this a dead end? Should I walk away? I love him, but not “in love” due to the rejection over the years. I honestly don’t know what to do. Am I being rational?

Dr Jamie Turndorf Answered question August 8, 2022