I’ve got my eye on this girl that I’ve known for couple of years. She knows that I like her and we go out sometimes in groups and only a few times we went to dinner.I want to tell her something but at the same time I don’t want to scare her away. In other words, I want her to end up liking me more than I do like her.I want a serious relationship with her can you please give me some advice.
When you say that you want her to like you more than you like her, you’re really saying that you don’t want to put yourself out there because you’re afraid of getting hurt or rejected by her. As long as she likes you more than you like her, you think that your heart will be safe.Love doesn’t work this way! You can’t play it safe when it comes to your heart. You have to have the courage to open your heart completely and just love. Holding back and playing it safe isn’t the way to go.Nothing is happening with her because you’re holding back.Your holding back conveys disinterest and this is going to backfire on you big time. We humans are drawn to those people who care for us. So letting her know how you feel about her should endear her to you.I sense that she’s waiting for you to make your move because she, too, is scared of rejection. Don’t worry about rejection. Holding back is the worst kind of rejection. . . . because you’re rejecting your own heart.Don’t live in fear of what ifs. Nothing that we fear ever comes true anyway! It’s always the things that we never saw coming that bring us to our knees. So stand tall and tell her how you feel!Make sure to invite me to the wedding.