Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years, and it has been harmonic loving and caring. However, with the time the relationship has lost some inspiration and we are becoming somewhat apathetic. We don’t do lots of new things anymore and we are kind of bored together.

We care for each other deeply and are able to be vulnerable and share emotional issues. At the same time, she feels like a stranger to me sometimes and I feel that we are deviating when it comes to how we want to spend our recreational time and what we value in regards to self realisation.

Is this a common pattern in relationships that are transitioning from the honey moon phase?

fabiansd1402 Changed status to publish February 16, 2023