Well Dr. Love.Two months ago a guy asked me to be his girlfriend. But then I said I needed a little more time to think. After a one month vacation, I forgot that he asked me to became his girlfriend, and after that I went to the place we always hang-out.Suddenly, I noticed that he didn’t give me attention anymore. Then I asked him by e-mail, he said he isn’t mad at me. But earlier when I went to our hang-out place I noticed that he always gave more attention to my other best friend (girl). He used to do everything for me. I’m the one who is doing now.Dr. Love please help me, answer this question, does he still like me or he has another girlfriend? I need the answer please, ASAP pronto.
He said that he isn’t mad at you. He felt hurt and humiliated. When you ‘forgot’ that he asked you out, your behavior said that he isn’t important enough to you to even remember his interest.He got the message and pulled away. I think that this guy really likes you and that he’s giving his attention to your girlfriend in an attempt to make you jealous.If I were you, I would study why you ‘forgot’ that he asked you out. Keep in mind that 95% of everything we do and say in life and even the choices and actions we take are the result of unconscious motivations. Your unconscious did a very relationship breaking thing by forgetting his overture.Are you afraid of getting close to him and/or any guy? Find out because if you don’t, this part of your psyche will rear its head again and you’ll be in this same bind once again with this guy or someone else! As for how to remedy your current dilemma, once you understand the real reason why you forgot him, you can use this information to repair the blunder you made.Let’s say your self-analysis reveals that you are afraid of becoming close because deep-down you’re afraid that he will walk out on you. You can tell him what you’ve realized about yourself. This realization will achieve more than one end. First, it will let him know that you didn’t blow him off because you don’t like him. This will help to repair his bruised ego and should also give him the courage to try again with you.
