I am married with one child, almost 6. I am 32 and my husband is 42. He loves our daughter very much, but told me that he didn’t want any more children after her. I have been on birth control ever since and even asked him to get a vasectomy if he really didn’t want more children. He didn’t ‘get around to it’ and now I am 2 1/2 months pregnant.I am thrilled about it but my world is falling apart around me. My husband wants nothing to do with the pregnancy and has said he isn’t even sure he will be around for the new baby, although he will take care of his financial responsibilities and be there for our first child. He feels I have gone against his wishes (doesn’t it take two?) and that I should have an abortion. He says I don’t care what he feels.I don’t know what to do or think. I do not want to terminate the pregnancy, and I thought I loved this man and that he loved me, but how can someone react that way if truly in love? Do I keep on hoping he will change his mind, or do I go on with my life (and pregnancy) without him? How can you love one child that is yours and not the other one? Please help me.