Dear Dr. Love:Hi, I’m very interested in this guy I know, I’ve had a crush on him for about a year. The problem is, we are both shy and although we are great together, our lifes don’t coincide very well. He has a strong christian background and is a stay at home type. I’m athiest and love to party. I don’t know if we can make it work because we aren’t together yet. Do you have advice on how I can get over any shyness, and maybe some advice on how to make our lives easier to mesh together? Thanks for your time.