When a woman is interested in a man, she sends him what I call ‘green lights’ She smiles, makes eye contact, has approachable body language, and manages to show up where he is known to hang out.Before asking a girl to be your girlfriend, get to know her better. Ask her questions about herself, listen to her, tell her what you like about her; in short, be a friend. As you develop a connection, asking her to be your girlfriend will flow naturally.There are no rules about what you should or shouldn’t say. Obviously you aren’t going to tell her that her butt looks like the broad side of a barn. Nor are you going to tell her that you are asking her out because you want to get laid.What you do want to do is speak from your heart. We all are naturally drawn to people who have positive feelings for us. Letting her know what you like and admire about her is the way to go.Let me know how you make out.