Alright. So my boyfriend and I have already discussed the sex thing. We BOTH decided we aren’t ready, but we do get hot and heavy. We have what is called dry sex (where we’ll go through the motions of having sex, but BOTH of us are FULLY clothed)Is there any possibility at all that some of his semen can get through his boxer, his jeans, my jeans, and my underwear? Please respond as quickly as you can!!!Thank You very much.
When I read the exhausting itinerary that your boyfriend’s poor semen has to travel, I can assure you that it would be far too tired to impregnate you!Seriously now, in order for you to become pregnant the semen must meet up with one of your eggs. The easiest way for this union to occur is for the semen to be directly deposited inside the vagina, through penetration.However, it is possible for a woman to become pregnant if a man ejaculates near her vagina. Then, the semen can swim inside the body, carried on a woman’s own natural lubrication.Also, do be aware that if he has semen on his hands and then touches your vagina, you could become pregnant. If your boyfriend ejaculates when you both are fully clothed, it would be impossible for you to become pregnant from this, unless of course his jeans, your jeans and both your undergarments are filled with holes that would allow the semen safe passage to your genitals.If you two are complete rag bag kids, with clothing like swiss cheese, then you’d have something to worry about. I also hope that you both are practicing safer sex, which means that he uses a condom so that you do not contact his body fluids.If he’s keeping ‘it’ in his pants, and that includes his fluids, then you don’t need a condom. But, if you are stimulating him manually or orally, condoms should be used. Many teens worry so much about pregnancy, which is certainly important, but another important, and often overlooked, risk is sexually transmitted diseases. So, be careful all around.
