How can i make my husband realize what he is doing to me. He is very controlling and and very jealous.He never puts me first in our relationship. He has never hit me but he talks to me like I’m nothing sometimes. How can i stick up for myself, and let him now I’m serious, and it isn’t a joke. I feel like he doesn’t love me any more.We have been together for 7 years and been married 3 years. I can’t give my thoughts on anything to him. It seems it doesn’t even matter to him. Please give me feedback. Thank you.