Hello everyone, I would like to ask you a question. 10 years ago, I met a girl in an online game. She is 19, I am 21. I played it every day and met her here often. We started writing more and more often. After that, we exchanged Facebook, email, skype, etc … Since then, we have been in contact with each other every day, writing, calling, etc … Even several hours a day. She lives 250 kilometers from me. After I did my driver’s license and learned to drive a little better, I invited her to a meeting and came to see her, and we got away for the first time. It didn’t take long and I invited her on a date. This was successful, we also had our first kiss. Then we kept writing and I really fell in love with her. I think of her every day. But there was one problem. I know she has a mental health problem. Unfortunately, in recent months he has stopped communicating both with me and his surroundings. He doesn’t want me to go after her. when I write it, it will come back in a week, not only to me, but also to my friends. I’m really scared of her, I love her so much, I love her and I’d like to help her. And I would also like to win her heart. I want to be a really good support for her.
PS: I would also like to add that my health is not the best and I also deal with mental health problem
I get that you care for this woman and want to help her. There is an old psychiatric saying: How many psychiatrists does it take to change a light bulb? Answer: One, but the light bulb really has to want to change.
My point is we have to help ourselves. She needs to be motivated to get the right help for herself. You can’t do that for her.
At the same time, as you said, you have mental health issues yourself. You need to be on strong footing yourself. Otherwise, having her lean on you could make you lose your own footing!
By the way, there is a lot of published scientific research that I cite in my latest book: If You Think You Don’t Have PTSD, THINK AGAIN! proving that many psychiatric issues, from depression, to anxiety, to bi-polar disorder are linked to low Mg. I suggest that both of you begin using Elektra Magnesium (available at: elektramagnesium.com.au). I don’t sell or distribute the product, nor do I receive commissions. I just recommend Elektra because it is the purest and most potent form of trans-dermal (via skin) magnesium on the market. It goes right into your bloodstream and bypasses digestion for immediate absorption. I have seen wonderful results with all kinds of problems. I recommend it to all my patients.
The best way to help her is to make that recommendation to her. And please let me know how you both are doing.