I am fourteen years old and going into 9th grade. I am not that comfortable around girls but that is not my main problem. I go to a lot of school dances, and when I get the nerve I will dance a slow song.Now the problem is I (oh no!!!) get erections when i am dancing close to them. I see other kids doing dancing and they seem to be doing fine, but this is really a big problem because I will usually have to break off because there so noticble. I want to be able to be close to a girl without getting so horny. It would be nice to just hold a girl. I am sure you know what I mean.Are there any books? Drugs? Or just some simple advice? Please help me.
It is normal for a young man to experience spontaneous erections. This means that you may find yourself becoming erect when the wind shifts directions, or when a mosquito buzzes past your fly (that didn’t come out right!).The point is, it’s normal. And, you need to make peace with your piece. Some young men wear very baggy pants to hide their erections when they arise. This may be helpful.Meanwhile, don’t even think about drugs. You are fine and normal. If you continue to feel embarrassed by your biological responses, do consider talking to someone.
