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My husband and I have been married a year and a half. We have been together for 5 years. he seems to feel that sex is the answer to everything.When I come home from work after working 12 hours he wants sex. If I’m depressed, he thinks sex can cure everything. He claims he is never too tired. He pouts when I tell him I’m not in the mood.He is 52 years old and often acts like a teenager where matters of sex are concerned. There was a time I would love to cuddle with him. But he always wants more. I am currently going through menopause and realize that my lack of sexual drive can be attributed to that. However, I also know that being made to feel like a sex object is another.I know my husband loves me a great deal. He is a recovering alcoholic/drug addict who has been clean for 18 years. However, I wonder if he sometimes isn’t substituting one addiction for another. I say this because when we were dating and the sex was very good, he still found it necessary to see someone else.We have both been married twice before this and I know he has encountered this problem in his other marriages. I don’t know what to do anymore. I often feel guilty and give in just so I don’t have to hear the nagging or the manipulative words he uses to try to make me feel guilty. He wants my attention at all times when he is home.