What he’s really telling you is to go screw yourself.He’s not empathizing with you. He’s not telling you that he loves you and wants you to please hang in with him. He’s jerking your chain and serving you a big heaping of garbage.He says she’s not leaving. When a man is serious about ending a relationship, and the person he’s living with won’t leave, then he leaves!It sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. He has put himself in a position where he isn’t committed to either of you. In many cases, playing both sides of the fence is due to a fear of intimacy. When a person is too afraid to give himself to one person, for fear of being swallowed up or taken over; or for fear of loving and losing.Reading what you’ve said tells me that this man’s unwillingness to commit is a symptom of great contempt. He is acting hatefully toward you. He hates women and you are being emotionally raped.You need to do my Personality Profile right now to find out why you would tolerate this treatment. The Profile will identify the cause of your wound and help you heal it. When you are healthier, I am sure that you will want to run for your life!