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Wow. What impresses me about your question is your determination to make things right for her. This tells me what a good person you are. You truly deserve a chance to put things right.The problem is this girl is really furious with you. I always say that anger is never the primary emotion. Anger conceals the more vulnerable emotions such as fear, hurt, sadness.At first I had thought that she asked if you miss her because a part of her was hoping that you actually do miss her. But then the way she blasted you when you admitted to missing her, made me wonder if she only asked the question in order to bait you–to set you up for a beating.When she beat you, she made reference to your having played with her. I’m assuming you know what she means.If you want to make this right, then you need to take responsibility for what you did to her. To do this you would say: I know how much I wronged you by doing (fill in what you did). You can’t believe how much I want to make this right for you. I’m not asking you to forgive me or trust me. I just want the chance to be able to talk with you and have you tell me everything that I did wrong. Even though I can’t take back what I did, the least I can do is listen and hopefully help you heal from the pain I gave you. And I know you don’t owe me anything, but I would appreciate your feedback which will actually help me become a better person. When you do this you have to be entirely genuine. The words have to come from your heart. If she senses that you’re only trying to worm your way back into a relationship with her, your communication will backfire.If you are persistent and don’t give up, there’s a good chance that it will pay off. She will see that you are truly devoted and not out to play her.If she doesn’t accept your offer, there’s nothing more you can do except learn from your mistakes and never play another woman again.Speaking of playing a woman, I advise you to analyze yourself and figure out why you did what you did. I’m betting that Old Scars from your own childhood led you to behave the way you did. People don’t play others unless they are angry over having been played themselves. My book Till Death Do Us Part (Unless I Kill You First) lists every Old Scar known to man. It also shows you how each of these Scars express themselves in our adult relationships and the exact emotional medicine you need to heal each specific Scar. By all means use my book to help you, so that you are sure that the Scar doesn’t lead you to play another woman again.Please let me know how you make out. I am rooting for you.