Dr. Love Please help! I am in a relationship with a man for 5 years and he’s asked me to marry him. That’s not the problem. . . I am starting to question his sexuality. . . there is NO foreplay when we make love. . . No Oral sex No Kissing. . . he said he didn’t want the juices to get in his mouth from kissing or oral sex. . . so I told him I am more turned on from getting my neck and back kissed, then he said he would do it but he want do it because I just need to shut up about it and he can do it. . . he is even uncomfortable if I watch a movie with sex in the movie. . . If I say his body looks nice he gets uncomfortable. . . I am tired of asking him for these things and have been seriously thinking about cheating. He is with me most of the time and I don’t think he is seeing another woman. . . but he has a male friend that I have never met that sounds gay when he calls the house. . . and I said to him the guy sounds gay. So the guy doesn’t call there anymore. My Fiance has a very nice body and is very anal about the way he looks. I am truly frustrated with this. . I love him but I need attention he is 32 years old and I am 38 years old. He said sex is not important in a relationship and I know it’s not the most important thing but it is in the top ten. Plus when we do have sex he only lasts for a few minutes and then falls asleep and doesn’t want do it again until a few weeks later. . . he treats sex like it a job. Please Help!