Hi!My boyfriend broke up with me. He said he was still in love with the last person he was with before me.He was in prison for 2 years and she is still in prison. He has only been out for 6 months and we were together for 4 months. He started playing world of warcraft (online computer game) and slowly I was seeing him less and less and then he told me he was still in love with her.Do you think it’s the game or he is really still in love with her? We had a good relationship. I am so confused and never expected him to still be in love with her.
I hear that he broke your heart and I’m very sorry for you.You asked me whether I think it’s the game or whether he does indeed love his former girlfriend. Unfortunately, I’m not in his skin, so I would have no way of knowing. On the other hand, the answer to the question doesn’t really matter, does it?He’s made up his mind and he’s ended the relationship. Your boyfriend has all kinds of problems that he isn’t facing. These problem would have made it impossible for him to sustain a relationship with you over time. In other words, sooner or later, you’d have come to this point.I’m glad it was sooner, so that you only had four months worth of investment in him instead of four years! Notice the way he avoids and runs away from his feelings by hiding himself in a computer game.I’m not so convinced that he actually capable of love. If he loves his ex as much as he says he does, then why did he end it with her in the first place?Now your poor heart has to grieve. In the future, when you meet someone else, please use my Is He Ready for Love?Consultation which will help you thoroughly assess whether the person you have your eye on is, indeed capable of having a lasting relationship. You can’t afford to have your heart broken like this again. Take care of yourself.