I have 2 kids and have been living with my boyfriend for 2 years now but the problem i have is that he goes out of his way to do favors for his extended family and its like my and the kids are secondary. . . then he gets upsets with me for telling him how i feel and thinks i dislike his them. . .also he does not like to inform me of what he is doing and when i feel upset about these issue he refuses to talk about it with me and this really makes me mad. . . . .i feel like i am not getting the attention i deserve what can i do