Dear Dr. Love,I met this guy a year and a half ago and when we first met, he had a girlfriend so, despite the undeniable attraction we both felt for each other, we remained true friends for the entire year that him and his girlfriend went out.This summer he told me that we couldn’t talk anymore till he and her break up because he was getting mixed emotions about me(wondering what me and him would be like). Finally, in mid-summer, he calls me and tells me he broke it off with her. I was happy but at the same time wondering what he wanted from me now, see, I was devastated when he stopped talking to me because I love him.So, to forward to my current problem, he came as my date to a dance at my school, and after we went to a party and I had a little alcohol. We came back to my house and he forced me to perform oral sex on him. We haven’t talked about what occured, he hasn’t called me and I’m feeling completely devasted because I not only feel completely violated, but by someone I love whom I never thought would do this to me, I don’t know how to handle this, should I approach him in person or on the phone, and what should I say, I am afraid to lose the friendship we built but I don’t know how to look past this, I am scared to talk about it to him, but I need some answers like why and how he co uld do this to me.What would posess a friend to take advantage of a friend in that way. Please respond to me, I am only in highschool, and I don’t know how to handle this, I’ve tried talking to a teacher, friends, and an adult friend but no one seems to know what to say. I need a professional opinion.Thank you.