I’ve been dating this girl for 3 months now and we were about to make love for the first time, well just before it was going to happen she stopped and said’ I don’t think I can do this, Your not him’ meaning her ex. This is really bothering me. What does it mean? She dated this man for 6 years and he cheated on her so she dumped him 18 months ago. We have talked about him before but this is the first time in bed.I have mentioned to her that she needed to get closure with that relationship. Either forgive him and take him back or Not. she says that she would never take him back. I’m falling for this girl and don’t want to get hurt. She tells me that she likes me a lot but the ex seems to come up a lot. Should I stay in this relationship? What should I say the next time she brings him up? Is there anything I can do?