Hi Dr Love,I am a male in my late 40s dating for the past year a woman also in her late 40s. Neither of us has ever been married before. She is a wonderful women and I do love her. She is intelligent and caring.The problem is that I don’t have a strong physical attraction to her. She is attractive but the problem is on my side in that I have this physical expectation of what I would be sexually attracted to and she is not quite it.We have discussed this before and she is trying to get into shape and dieting. I am very appreciative of her for doing that. I know she wants to get married and she would be a great spouse for me so the question is how can I change my expectations to want her more physically.