I am engaged to a man whom I refer to as a ‘sexual camel’. We are both in our late 30’s and have both been married before. He works 3rd shift and I 1st. We have kids on the weekends and rarely any quality time alone.I wish we could have more intimate moments but it just isn’t happening. He is very attentive and loves to cuddle, but says that sex isn’t that important to him anymore and that being with someone that he loves and trusts is most important to him. He has been hurt a lot in the past and I can see the insecurities that he has. I need more sexual contact from him.What can I do to achieve a happy medium?