Dear Dr. Love,I ‘m 20 years old and I have been together with my girlfreind for 9 months. Sometimes I get confused and I wonder if she really loves me. Sometimes she really shows alot of love and sometimes she is really cold. My question is, how or what is the best way to tell if a woman really loves you.Thank You.
It is clear that this girl is very young and inexperienced. She is telling you that she’s not ready for more than a special friendship. It’s obvious she likes you.But, on the other hand, she says that you will have a nice, right partner when the time comes. She doesn’t say that she will be that partner. She is intrigued to know more about your attraction to her and when it began.Talk to her about what she wants to hear and is ready to hear. Since she wants to hear about when you realized you were attracted to her, tell her all about that. Tell her what you find attractive and appealing about her.Give her time to realize what a great guy and a great catch you are. Don’t rush her. Just tell her what you love about her and let her grow up and gradually come to realize that she loves you too.
