I am 24 years old. I am in love with a 19 year old girl. She is my brother-in-law’s sister.I have good relations with her and with her family. I proposed to her by sending her an e-mail. At first she said she is innocent and she can only be my unique friend. Then in her next mail she said that you are nice person you will get a nice partner, right partner when the time comes.And she also said You like me. It’s all right and asked me when I had that feeling of attraction towards her.What should I think? Does she love me?
It is clear that this girl is very young and inexperienced. She is telling you that she’s not ready for more than a special friendship. It’s obvious she likes you.But, on the other hand, she says that you will have a nice, right partner when the time comes. She doesn’t say that she will be that partner. She is intrigued to know more about your attraction to her and when it began.Talk to her about what she wants to hear and is ready to hear. Since she wants to hear about when you realized you were attracted to her, tell her all about that. Tell her what you find attractive and appealing about her.Give her time to realize what a great guy and a great catch you are. Don’t rush her. Just tell her what you love about her and let her grow up and gradually come to realize that she loves you too.
