Dear Dr. Love,I am a 39 year old female and have been divorced for 2 1/2 years, to a man I really loved but had to end the marriage because he was in love and seeing someone else, for this reason I didn’t have a choice but to ask for a divorce.Enough about the past, I am definitely going forward and really enjoying my life. I have been seeing an old friend of mine that I have been friends for 20 years. The nice thing about this is that I know him really well and there are no surprises about his past. I care deeply for him and would love to fall in love with him. He is kind, caring, generous, loves me very much and also loves my children. He is patient and will wait until ‘Cupid’ comes along. We have so much in common and are having a great time. The trouble is why is it so hard to fall in love with someone after a painful divorce? And is it possible to love someone you have seen as a friend for so long with no romantic feelings for him.I want to see’sparks’ and to fall in love, could this be possible?