Hi Dr Jamie,

I’m in a difficult position. I have been with my partner for 7 years. I have never felt that “in love” feeling. I always thought that it would develop over time, but it hasn’t. It is so bad that I kind off feel disgusted when he kisses me or wants to be intimitate with me. I’d rather masturbate than have sex with him.

We got a house and dogs together. Not maried, and no children. Should I break up with him? How do I do it. He is such a good guy and I do love him.

Dr Jamie Turndorf Answered question June 28, 2022