Ok. . . this is really stupid quesiton probably, but here goes. . . Me and my boyfriend of 3 years have decided that we want to have sex with each other. We are both 20 years old and both virgins in the sense that we have not engaged in penis to vagina insertion.We tried to have sex a while back, but we were unable to insert his penis. We just tried again this weekend. We had a full 72 hours of just being together and lots of no-pressure alone time. . . still we were not able to get him inserted.I was streched a good bit and could tell that b/c I am now able to use a small vibrator that I was not able to use before. Are we doing something insanely wrong or what? Should I perhaps purchase a bigger dildo and attempt stretching myself more?I’m not sure what to do. We were using a lubricated condoms, but they didn’t seem to help much. And as soon as we had gotten his tip in, he went soft from pushing so hard. Please help! Desparate for an answer