Dear Dr. Love I am a 45 year old female. Divorced and haven’t hada love relationship for 5 years. I have a male friend of 16 years who also hasn’t had a love relationship for maybe 2 or 3 years. The two of us hang out together quite often.Suddenly the talk of sex has worked its way into conversations. I had expressed once that I wanted a love slave and in no way insinuating him.One night during a cribbage game, he wanted to bet me for the win. If he won he gets to look at my bare breasts. At first I thought that was ridiculous, but then I realized how exciting that was. He won. I showed him my breasts, but he asked me if he could touch them, so I did.Eventually our cribbage games became more advanced. Now we are into oral sex and watching him masturbate. We have never had intercourse until a couple weeks ago, but I would only let him do it doggy style because I am not attracted to this guy at all. I couldn’t bring myself to kissing him or caressing him.I am concerned that if the relationship continues like this, he may end up getting hurt. I’m sure he knows that he and I will never be a couple, I have discussed it with him several times, but sometimes I get the feeling that he’s going beyond. Playing this game certainly has relieved those aches for both of us.Is this a healthy thing for two friends to do? Do you have any suggestions?