Dear Dr. Love,I have been with my husband for approx. 10 yrs. He has strong sexual fantasies including voyeurism. He has difficulty becoming aroused without the thought of acting out these fantasies. He relies heavily on pornograghy and has a history of wanting to hide this from me. It feels almost obsessive to me. Obsessiveness seems to permeate other areas of his life as well-example-time on our home computer. He believes counseling is not effective. What leads to obsessive behaviors? What is the best method for treatment and where can I go with my questions?Thank you, The confused wife who doesn’t want to be prudish but….