I really need your advice seeing as though you can give an objective opinion. My husband and I are newlyweds and have been married for a little over a year. Before we married, we dated for 2 and a half years. Since we first began dating, he has treated me so good. He would do absolutly anything for me and treats me like a queen.The problem is this: now that we’re married, I have began contemplating major issues such as’are we meant to be’. I think that this comes from the fact that I’ve known and heard of couples who get divorced after being married for 25+ years. That scares me and almost makes me think’ well, what’s the use if we could end up like that too’.Another major issue is that it scares me when I think about other men or dream about them. The only man that I really think about that much is a guy that I dated 5 years ago and who was my’high school sweetheart’. Our relationship was full of symbolism (songs, places, initials carved in trees, etc.) and it seemed magical. I don’t want him back-romantically, but I do think that I miss the friendship we once shared and all of those memories are still very vivid in my mind. Because I can still vividly recall those moments, I feel as though I’m cheating my marriage because I can’t as vividly recall all of the’high points’ in mine and my husbands relationship.I have been diagnosed with having depression and I am taking meds for it. For months, about 6 months ago, I was so happy and I got that’in love’ feeling back. Now it seems that those issues I’ve been wondering about are taking me over and I don’t even know how I feel towards my husband and our marriage. I feel sometimes like because I don’t always have that magical feeling, that maybe he’s not’the one’, then other times I feel like I would be a fool to let him go. I do love him and am devistated at the thought of leaving. Then I remember past relationships where I was so sad during the break-up but I always managed to get past that and there was always someone else.The bottomline is that I don’t want to be divorced and my husband and I have had great times and been happy together but I’m scared of the’what if’s’ of marriage. Is this most likely stemming from my depression or is this all a’sign’ that we don’t need to be married? Is this normal for newlyweds? Help Please!