So here’s the thing, I’ve liked my best friend for nearly 2 years and he finally asked me out about a month ago; and I said yes. But the thing is I really don’t know whether I like him or not; whether I see him as just a friend or as something more. I don’t feel what I felt around 2years ago. As in my heart doesn’t waver, I don’t even feel giddy and silly. He knows everything about me and I know everything about him.  I love him of course he’s my best friend. But I don’t know if we should keep on being gf and bf or go back to being friends. I can’t even break up cz I’m not sure of myself. Like what if I break up and turns out I’m in love with him. And obviously I don’t want to do anything that’ll make him sad. Plus my family’s moving to another country in 3 months time so I really need advice asap. I’m scared that I might loose contact with him and regret literally everything.

Dr Jamie Turndorf Answered question September 28, 2022