I need your help!! I’ve been contemplating breaking up with my boyfriend of four years and found the answer which shows that I’m at fault.In your archives you have a letter from 7-7-98 from Heartbroken but Still in Love. I’m exactly like his girlfriend!!!!How do I change to save this relationship? We’re best friends but lately I haven’t felt connected to him–I’ve felt very neglected. I have an incredibly hard time talking to him.My mother has always dealt with anger by ignoring the person she’s mad at. Unfortunately I inherited this trait, and I’m super sensitive so talking about strong feelings makes me extremely uncomfortable. I almost always feel better after I talk, but getting thru it is rather painful.Do you have any suggestions for me?? I desperately need your help. Confused in Ann Arbor