Dearest Doctor Love,My boyfriend and I have been umm, active for a while, and he won’t use a condom.I’ve heard of sponges and I think he might like those, but I can’t find a store that sells them. You know I love my guy and all but I don’t know who he’s been with!Should I get tested for AIDS or something? Do you think my boyfriend should? Should we stop frigging?Well…thanks, ConcernedP. S. -Do you know a place where I can get sponges?