I have been talking with a man over the internet for 3 years now.About 4 months ago I confessed my love for him, and in return he did the same. We recently met, very recently in fact as he arrived in my home town on Dec 30/98 and left on Jan 9/99.Needless to say I have never felt so much for another person in my life. I’m very much in love with him, and want to spend the rest of my life with him.There’s a catch though. He had a relationship online before me, and it ended, or rather just stopped! And the woman who disappeared contacted him a month ago and wants to meet him. He wants to meet her to see how things go with her, as he did with me. This is driving me crazy, as he has put me on the back burner until they meet.He says he loves me and that he loves her and is torn between us and doesn’t know what to do. He says he doesn’t want a relationship with me until he meets the other woman, if he wants a relationship with me at all after he meets her that is.Now what I’m wondering is do I stand for this or put my foot down and tell him he must choose because I need to get on with my life?I don’t want to lose this man as I love him with all of my heart, and want to share my life with him, and have his children. So basically I feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a really hard place. Help!!!