Dr. Love I am away from home for college. I like it in college a lot but I have girl problems. Actually I’ve always had girl problems. This maybe funny but I have always had a young face all throughout my life, even in college.On top of that I am only 5′ 4. The only girls that actually liked me in high school were much younger than I was. Some of the girls my age think I am the cutest thing, but more in the line of a teddy bear and not a boyfriend.What can I do to make myself more attractive to girls my age?
You know the actor Dudley Moore? He is much shorter than you and has a mega baby face. He has always dated very tall, knock out, supermodels. His most recent girlfriend, last I heard, is Susan Anton, who is over six feet tall and a gorgeous successful woman in her own right.What’s my point. You need to make piece with the package God gave you. It is, afterall, just a package that carries the present inside–you. You are smart, cute, sensitive and a real catch. When you start to believe this, girls will flock to you, believe me.So, reprogram your thinking. Turn what you consider your weaknesses into strengths. Think about all the short and youthful looking men who have been great successes personally and professional. Do your own research project and you will be amazed to find out how many great men and lovers were short and young looking. Do you know how tall Napoleon was? Your height, I believe.As for the baby face. There are many men who look very mature and who are actually babies on the inside. You can cultivate your own inner maturity, responsiblility, and so on. These qualities are very appealing to women.By the way, according to numerous studies, women are drawn, first and foremost, to men who will be good providers. In others words, safety and security are top on a woman’s list. Looks and height never even are much lower down on the ‘wish’ list.While looks and height are most important in high school, you will find that as the women in your age group become older, and closer to marrying age, they will begin to shift their prorioties in terms of what is attractive.Soon, the good provider and mature man will be the only type who appeals as opposed to a tall or handsome man who doesn’t make them feel safe enough to take the plunge. So, modify your attitude. Love will follow.
