Dr. Love, I have been with my boyfriend for six years. He is 13 years older than I and has never been married. I was married for 10 years and have a young teenage daughter. My boyfriend has a house and I live in a small rental house.He has a problem with staying with me at night even when my daughter is not home. I have tried to talk to him about how I feel and that I would like him to stay more often but there always seems to be a problem, either my bed hurts his back, so I get a new matress or he didn’t bring his inhailer, or he has to do somthing in the morning.When I get upset he just leaves like he is mad that I don’t understand. He is wonderful with my daughter and with my dog, but does not want much to do with the rest of my family or friends. He does include me in with his family and friends and expects me to go to the places he is invited and wants my daughter and I to go away with him to his families house for the summer weekends.I know that he Loves me very much and I Love him but I can’t understand why he seems to want me in his life so much but does not want to join me in mine. Many times I have thought that there might be a problem that he can’t or won’t talk to me about, when we have gone many months without sex, when his kisses are only a peck as he walks out the door.I have tried to end our relationship thinking I’m just not right for him but he doesn’t let me. He tells me he loves me and that I am what he wants. I need to know if I’m expecting too much from him or if he is expecting too much from me.I need to stop crying at night one way or the other.