I am a divorced man who is involved with a married woman who is in a “dead” marriage. Our relationship is amazing when we are together but toxic and full of mistrust when we are apart because she does not trust me nor I her . This may sound simple but we have gone through a lot together and experienced the highest highs and lowest lows.

But now the bad times outdo the good 5:1

But I am wrestling my head and heart and so scared to walk away because the bad only exists because of our need to be in the shadows .

please help me see clearly

Dr Jamie Turndorf Answered question September 1, 2022