Dear Dr. Love,I have never write to any one like this before. My husband and I have been married for 7 years now. We have two kids 4 and 5. I love my husband but it has got to the point that he does not want to make love to me. He does not even want to kiss me. He will tell me that he loves me but only if I say it first. When we get in to a fight he tells me that I am fat and that in dum. After words he nevers saids that he is SORRY he just goes on like nothing ever happend. I work at nights and he works days so are kids don’t have to go to daycare.Now I have a new job and they want me to work days and nights and he is having a fit. He has asked me who are you seeing at work that makes you want to work all the time. Then we start fighting . I don’t know what to do. PLEASE, PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!