By the age of 28 I have never had a boyfriend or been asked out. I am not attractive- I am overweight and perhaps a bit different from the average girl- I have always had plenty of friends so this has never seemed a problem.At present I have a very close friendship with a classmate, a man who is 46. I like him a lot- and through various comments he has led me to believe that he feels the same. However I am shy when it comes to discussing these things- I will never discuss who I like with anybody as there is no point as the average man would reject me. As I am inexperienced I can’t really tell if he likes me or not, We spend a lot of time together, always go for lunch together then we often meetup for a coffee before we go home or just spend the evening together talking.He told me once when he was quite drunk that he found me attractive and would like us to ‘get together’ in the future. However drunk men say a lot of things and I was too shy to say anything so the subject did not carry on-People treat u s as a couple even though we are not and we get lots of comments(not in a bad way) that just causes us to look embarressed. He quite often says things that makes me think he is interested-we were playing a daft game of truth and someone asked him who he wanted most in the course he would not say but looked at me and said’you know’- is this a hint?, there are plenty of other girls he speaks to much prettier than me,maybe he meant them?I want to know what he wants, but I don’t even know if would want to go out with him.He looks his age and after years of having no-one I would be embaressed to present a boyfriend to my friends especially one mch older. However I amhappy when I am with him and it does not look like anybody else will ever be interested..I really don’t know what do to. I don’t know if he likes me, and even if I did I don’t know if I want him, or could cope with any relationship- he is obviously more experienced than me and i find my lack of experience embarresing, so I am horrified at the prospect of discussing it.Oh what shall I do