Whether you are struggling with a new or long-standing area of conflict or your relationship has hit a dead-end, I will help you navigate out of the discontent and guide you to experience a deeply meaningful, loving and intimate relationship with your partner.
“When Helen and I were fighting, we saw the top couples therapists, to no avail. If we ever get into trouble again, we’re calling you!” -Dr. Harville Hendrix, New York Times best-selling author of Getting the Love You Want and Founder of Imago Relationship Therapy.
As Director of the Center for Emotional Communication, I’ve spent the past thirty-three years studying what makes relationships fail or flourish. The result of my research was published in my critically acclaimed book Kiss Your Fights Good-bye: Dr. Love’s 10 Simple Steps to Cooling Conflict and Rekindling Your Relationship. The book and my method has been endorsed by three NY Times #1 Bestselling authors, Jack Canfield, author of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series, John Gray, Ph.D. (Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars), John Bradshaw (Homecoming) and Harvard Professor of Psychiatry (now deceased), Dr. John Mack.
I’ve also written, Make Up Don’t Break Up: Dr. Love’s Five-Step Plan For Reconciling with Your Ex, which shows couples how to reconcile even after a break up.
No matter how distressed your relationship is, my proven methods will guide you to reconnect and live more happily than you ever dreamed possible.
Thousands of couples have found their way to me often after having tried and failed with other therapists.
Often couples come to me after having separated.
Don’t worry, I’ll help you reconnect and make your relationship stronger and more loving than you ever dreamed possible.
My methods also work wonders for improving your relationship with friends, children and other family members.
Working with Dr. Turndorf has been exhilarating and freeing, like finding a portal in my own back yard to achieve changes that I never dreamed were possible. I now have an ability to handle and respond to difficult situations that arise between me and my wife, brother, sister, mother, father, and even the bogey-man of suffering and death. I feel vulnerable and empowered to speak without fear and describe with greater clarity what goes on inside. Above all, I am capable of much greater love and compassion. My life has been transformed through my work with Dr. Turndorf! Tim S.
My wife and I were fighting all the time, and I was sure our marriage was over. Dr. Turndorf helped me understand how my words and actions were hurting my wife and actually triggering the Old Scars from her first family. Then, Dr. Turndorf showed me what to say and do differently in order to help my wife heal these Old Scars. For the first time in our 25-year marriage, my wife actually feels like I’m on her side. And the fighting has magically stopped. We are eternally grateful to Dr. Turndorf for saving our marriage. Dr. Michael D.
I came to Dr. Turndorf after having attempted suicide. I was so depressed because I couldn’t seem to stop choosing partners who cheat on me. Dr. Turndorf helped me to uncover and heal the cause of this pattern. I met a wonderful man, married him, and we have lived, quite literally, happily ever after. Thank you Dr. Turndorf for saving my life! Dawn W.
My wife and I lived a sexless marriage for nearly 25 years! There was so much hurt and anger on both our parts. Dr. Turndorf patiently uncovered the real cause of the problem and resolved it. Who could have ever imagined that my wife and I could feel like newlyweds again in our 50s! In truth, our love is stronger now than ever. Thank you, Dr. Turndorf! Keith B.