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You are being abused by this person. Can you see that you are trapped in a revolving door? You are rewarding her with love, attention, hoping to win her respect. The more she mistreats you, the more you give. On the most superficial level, you must realize that continuing to give to someone who dumps …
You have good reason to be concerned. This man is behaving in a selfish way. He is inconsiderate of you. You aren’t even married, yet he has you wrapped around his finger because he knows you will tolerate whatever he does. You are a doormat in this relationship. That you are even asking me whether …
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What a complicated story. You are obviously a lovely person who cares for his wife and doesn’t want to do her harm. At the same time, you want to marry your new love. You are certainly entitled to have a life filled with love and emotional and physical intimacy. The fact that you are asking …
Wow. What a mess. This is a very odd triangle. You seem to feel threatened by her presence, as though you are in competition with her for your boyfriend’s affection. It seems to me that he feels indebted to her for having cared for his children. Since she isn’t a blood relative, he could have …
You expressed the problem perfectly. I totally understand how you feel. In fact, she is using the baby to drive a literal wedge between you two. The baby sleeps between you two and is actually a physical wedge between you. My first thought is how was able to spend alone time with you, without the …
I can understand why you are suspicious. Normally he wants you to go to the auctions and out to dinner and this time he’s angry that you want to ride along. It is very likely that he has felt hurt by your refusals to go with him. He may have pulled away from you and …
If I get this right, you’ve made a virginity vow. Meanwhile, your boyfriend has his hands all over you. No wonder you feel confused and scared. You are in quite a touchy situation. I’m wondering if when you say the word confused you actually mean that you are conflicted?And you do sound conflicted to me. …
What a great question. You are confused because you are comparing champagne and wine. Two years ago, your love was fizzy, like a freshly opened bottle of champagne. You were experiencing the bubbly excitement of a freshly uncorked bottle! Now, 2 years later your love has mellowed like fine wine. Yes, you are friends. And …
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This is quite a mess. Your boyfriend gave you his Facebook password, which would indicate that he has nothing to hide. He says that his ex wants him back, but that he doesn’t. And, in fact, you have verified that he never wrote back to her on Facebook.What the ex said on Facebook makes no …
It’s not my place to tell you what to do.You say that you worry that you are depressed.How could you not be depressed? You are a human punching bag, and a prisoner in your own emotional jail. I’m the jailor who can set you free. The key to your freedom is understanding. First, I want …
