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I commend you for wanting to do what’s needed to make-up with her. By the way, I just launched my new book Make-Up Don’t Break Up https://askdrlove.com/product/make-up-dont-break-up-dr-loves-5-step-plan-for-reconciling-with-your-ex/. This is right up your alley. I suggest your downloading it right away. Not only will the book help you get out of the fix you’re in now, it …
I believe I have the answer to your mystery. You mentioned that your girl’s sex drive abruptly stopped. I am betting that it’s the birth control pill that’s affecting her. I bet she wasn’t on the pill when you began your relationship. If you’re like many couples, once you became exclusive, you tossed the condoms …
Gosh, I am heartsick over your story.It’s just so hurtful to be told that he never loved you. I have to wonder why he telling you this now.Is it possible that he’s only saying this to hurt you? Is it possible that he’s angry with you? Does he resent you for roping him into marriage? …
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I’m so sorry to hear about your struggle. As you have sadly discovered, the aftermath of childhood sexual abuse is long lasting.I hear that you say living a gay lifestyle is not an option for you–perhaps because of the culture in which you live.Consider the possibility that you aren’t gay and that you just turned …
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I think we should call your husband the ‘Jiffy Lube’ man. That is, he expects you to become lubricated (and aroused) in a jiffy. Based upon what we know about normal female sexual response, your husband’s expectations are not realistic. This is why most couples engage in at least 20 minutes of foreplay before the …
I’m sorry that I didn’t see this question until today! I know that you were asking about whether you should tell her before Thanksgiving, which has passed. But you are going to her family for the New Year, so we have some time before that comes. You asked how to explore your feelings in a …
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Your torment leaps from the page. My heart goes out to you. I don’t think she’s intentionally playing you, but her internal conflict is causing her to run and hot and cold, come in close and pull away. Of course, you, on the receiving end of this behavior, feel toyed with. What I hear is …
The issue isn’t whether you made the decision too quickly. The issue is that you are allowing your parents to dictate your life. You said, “They will not accept us together in the future.” And, “Their acceptance really matters to me, and I won’t be able to move forth in the relationship without them saying …
Please note, Dr. Jamie Turndorf personally answers the questions submitted to her advice column! You are clearly saying that your husband prefers masturbation to intercourse. While he says that you are too tight to penetrate, he is able to penetrate you 8-9 times a year on special occasions. He also says his wish to penetrate …
