Dr. Love's Relationship Toolkit

The self-test workbooks in this Relationship Toolkit will help you before, during, and after a relationship. They will help you understand both your own and your partner’s psychology, determine your compatibility, profile who and what’s right for you, and even where a relationship went wrong.

These workbooks are all easy to follow relationship tests with a simple self-grading system and analysis of your answers. They are fun and informative and will help you understand yourself, your partner, and this crazy little thing called love a lot better!

Is He Interested In Me?
Dr. Love’s Guide To Determining If The Guy You’re Interested In Is Really Into You

Is He Interested In Me?

How can you know if he is truly interested in YOU...the kind of interest that makes a guy want to know you more deeply, and even create a lifetime of lasting love?Is there a way to know BEFORE you expose yourself and invest your heart? And what can you do to spark his interest in you and even fan the flames of his heart?

My Is He Interested in Me? test will tell you if your heart throb’s heart beats for you and also show you how to raise his...heartbeat!

Am I In Love or Only In Lust?
Dr. Love’s Guide To Determining If Your Relationship Is Based On Love or Lust

Am I In Love Or Lust?

Do you ever wonder whether you are in love…or only in lust? Do you lie awake fretting that you or your partner may not have the kind of love that lasts a lifetime? Could you be confusing love with lust?

With this test, I help you understand how to tell the difference between true love and simple sexual lust and determine which one your relationship is based on.

Are We Compatible?
Dr. Love’s 118 Factors for Measuring Compatibility With Your Partner

Are We Compatible

Research proves that homogamy, or similarity, is the key to compatibility.

This is because couples who are too dissimilar find themselves fighting over every issue big and small. The truth is, the more similar you and your partner are, the more compatible you will be.

With this test, Dr. Love assesses your level of homogamy in the all the areas that matter.

Is Your Partner Ready For Love?
Dr. Love’s 66 Keys For Measuring Your Partner’s Relationship Readiness

Is Your Partner Ready

Sometimes relationship problems can be caused by the fact that your partner just isn't ready for or even capable of having a relationship. But how can you tell?

This test helps you determine if your partner is capable of being in a lasting relationship while revealing what unfinished business, childhood issues, or Old Scars might be preventing him or her from fully connecting with you.

Dr. Love’s Blueprint for Discovering Your Ideal Partner & Avoiding Incompatibility


Can You Tell Mr. or Ms. Right from Mr. or Ms. Totally Wrong? Choosing the right person is your first step on the path to lasting love.

Stop wasting your time and energy on the wrong partners!

You will never have a good relationship with someone if you don't understand who is right for you. This test will help you create the profile of your ideal mate, the partner of your dreams.

Is She Interested In Me?
Dr. Love’s Guide To Determining If The Woman You’re Interested In Is Really Into You

Is she Interested In Me?

Research proves that homogamy, or similarity, is the key to compatibility.

This is because couples who are too dissimilar find themselves fighting over every issue big and small. The truth is, the more similar you and your partner are, the more compatible you will be.

With this test, Dr. Love assesses your level of homogamy in the all the areas that matter.

What’s Your Relationship IQ?
Dr. Love’s 25 Keys for Learning About Your Relationship Intelligence

What's Your Relationship IQ?

Here we look at how you function in relationships through a series of multiple choice options for how you would react in a given relationship situation.

Preferred answers for the more healthy responses, analysis of your final score, analysis of why you might react the way you do, and suggestions on how to do things differently are provided. Works in tandem with your Personality Profile to help you understand what makes you tick.

Critical Questions to Ask Before You Get Too Close
Getting to Know Someone Before You’re in Too Deep

Critical Questions to Ask

Look before you leap! By asking the right questions first, you'll be empowered to steer clear of people who may be right for someone else but not right for you.

Making the right choice of partner to start with can save you a lifetime of pain and disappointment. Discover how much you have in common with over 100 questions in 22 areassuch as life goals, religion, friends, career, and more.

Were We Compatible?
Dr. Love’s Post-Relationship Test: Why Blame Yourself If You Just Weren’t Compatible?

Were We Compatible

A compatibility test similar to Are We Compatible?, but from the point of view of a relationship that’s over.

Determining where you went wrong before and in what ways you were incompatible with your ex can be vital in alleviating blame and guilt, but especially in avoiding further heartache and steering yourself in the right direction next time.

Why Didn’t It Work Out With Your Ex?
Diagnose Your Ex’s Issues So You Can Choose a Better Partner Next Time

Why Didn't It Work Out?

This is not another compatibility test. Instead this one zeroes in strictly on your ex's psychology.

This series of questions helps you determine what baggage your ex might have been carrying which prevented him or her from being able to establish a real relationship with you or anyone for that matter.

Again, this not only helps you get a healthy perspective on the past, but also it assists you in making better dating & relationship choices in the future.


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-- Linda G. Russek, Ph.D,
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“This is the most beautiful true love story that I have ever read. The depth of the author's love for her husband and her terrible grief at his death, and then her triumph as she learned to continue her relationship with him even after his death are all palpable. I lived it with her, and her story has stayed in my mind. For me, though, the reason to read this book is the author's wisdom in teaching her readers how to heal rifts across the death boundary.

As one who has done extensive afterlife research, I can attest to the importance of post-death healing of relationships to both our dead loved ones and ourselves! Yet few people know how essential this healing is, and fewer still know how to begin it. As a prominent relationship counselor, Dr. Turndorf tackles this essential area, and she does it well. Hers is a wonderful book.”

-- Roberta Grimes,
author of The Fun of Dying: Find Out What Really Happens Next and The Fun of Staying in Touch

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-- Dave Campbell,
Certified Windbridge Research Medium (WCRM)

“When I held this 248 page spiritual giant in my hands, even before I started turning the pages I knew I had found a special guide that would help me through one of the hardest journeys I have taken. To love so deeply and completely and then to have the person removed from my physical life is hard enough, but then to find a way to stay connected with them is even more frustrating.

So it was totally Heaven sent when I was asked to review this gentle messenger that helped me to stay connected, to recognize the connection and to even validate the connection.

I also loved the way the author shared on such a deep and personal level it helped me to not feel alone and gave me courage to bypass my mind. I would recommend this sweet giant to anyone who feels the loss of a loved one. Thanks so much Jamie for the awesome blueprint. “

-- Riki Frahmann,
Chief Reviewer for the ezine Mystic Living Today

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-- Dr. Robert S. Pepper,
author Emotional Incest in Group Psychotherapy

"In her book, Love Never Dies: How to Reconnect and Make Peace with the Deceased, Turndorf teaches a method for dialoguing with the departed which holds tremendous healing potential for everyone who has lost a loved one. Turndorf is passionate in her certainty that we can actually communicate with those we’ve lost. Since reading Love Never Dies (which describes the dialogue process in great detail) I’ve used Turndorf’s technique and it has opened life-changing doors for me. It’s a powerful process, and I encourage everyone who feels ready to try it."

-- Ken Page,
L.C.S.W. from "A Life-Changing Exercise for Anyone Who Has Lost a Loved One" published in Psychology Today

"I just finished reading Dr. Turndorf's most recent book, LOVE NEVER DIES, and I highly recommend it for everyone who wants to connect with a loved one who has passed on to the Spirit Realm. This book tells the heartfelt story of the author’s tragic loss of her husband and his subsequent messages to her from beyond the veil, and it outlines the steps we should take to communicate with the spirits of the people we loved on Earth."

-- Garnet Schulhauser,
author of Dancing on a Stamp and Dancing Forever with Spirit

"This well-researched book offers a thorough, step-by-step program that provides tools for couples to heal even the most troubled relationships."

-- Dr. John Mack,
Pulitzer Prize winning author and Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School

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