Deceased Ex Wife Sharing our Marriage

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I was married 2 weeks ago to Jim. He is a good man and is good to me. He works off shore so he is going 10 days and home only 5.<br />
My problem is this: He was married to “donna” and had one&nbsp;child. They divorced and she remarried. Donna then died of cancer when the child was 11. Her parents helped him raise this child who is now 18. In fact Dona’s mother has complete control of Jim’s checkbook. He promised this is going to change but it has not even though I have been added to all of his accounts.
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Donna’s sister, "Jan"&nbsp;and her bf were 2 of only 5 ppl at our very informal wedding. After the wedding, Donna’s sister pulled out the old wedding album from Jim and the Donna. I heard how beautiful she was from Jim and how tiny she was. After listening to them go down memory lane for almost an hour I walked outside. Jan's bf apparently realized things were not going as they should be and insisted that they put up the book. Jim and I discussed it and I was able to let him know just how badly that hurt me. I believed that this was the end of it.
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This weekend he calls Jan. I hear him tell her that Donna was the "ultimate wife" and he has "had" to move on. I probably handled things entirely wrong but that hurt badly. We discussed it later and he said that yes she would always be his ultimate wife even though they were divorced and both had remarried when she died. He says he still thinks of her all the time..she has been dead for 8 years. He says he doesnt want this to become a problem between us. I feel as if I am sharing my marriage with a ghost and I do not know what to do.
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